從我看過聽過的真實例子中, 身為長子長女的人, 大部份都背肩著一種可怕的擔子, 而且是長期性的.
周遭中有這樣的朋友或親人, 有時侯他們訴苦, 我是只能體諒, 但體會不到他們所承受的壓力. 心理上看來, 那應該是與生俱來的. 我不知道, 對他們來說這壓力除了是負擔, 還會否是個枷鎖, 牢牢地捆住他們, 使得他們無法作出較大的轉變和嘗試.
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Love is not something permanent, eternal. Remember, what poets say is not true. Don´t take their criterion, that the true love is eternal, and untrue love is momentary - no! Just the opposite is the case. The true love is very momentary - but what a moment!... such that one can lose the whole of eternity for it, can risk the whole of eternity for it. Who wants that moment to be permanent? And why should permanency be valued so much?... because life is change, flow; only death is permanent.
I agree with it until the last sentence. NO, death is not permanent as well, death is a transition point.